It is what is —- So simple it is almost an insult. But I spent much of my life knowing this short phrase without ever applying it to my life. I was more concerned with what I wanted, what I thought should happen, what was fair, how other people should treat me, how my family should appreciate me more, and on and on.
I missed the simple truth that reality does not depend on my wants, desires, or opinion. It does not require on my approval. It just is.
I can accept reality as it is exactly at this moment and deal with it, or I can whine, gripe, complain, blame or whatever. None of these affect the outcome of the situation.
Accepting does not mean agreement or approval——only that I recognize and accept the reality of what is in front of me at this specific moment. Problems can only be solved when dealing with reality; anything else results in worry, frustration, and disappointment.
If you’re not calling 911, it’s not a big deal.
Prayer: My heavenly parent and indwelling spirit, please help accept the reality of my situation today; to be grateful for what I have instead of focusing on what I want. If my times are troublesome, carry me over the rocks; if times are good, help me to feel grateful but not take undue credit. Help me to remember that things could always be worse; that no matter where I am today, I have likely experienced worse days; that many other people have less than me. Help me to feel Your love and mercy in the deepest fiber of my being; to be aware of any opportunity that I may have to help one of your children today; to act according to Your will, to be loving.
Spiritual Engineering
