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8501 W Bowles Ave # 2B735,
September25 Patricia; with 2 other authors on relationships
1-4 PM corner of Parker & Arapahoe BORDERS
October 2 1-4 PM Lakewood BORDERS
14500 Colfax Ave,
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Sometimes I feel a need to prove myself “right” or to win a disagreement simply as a way of making me feel worthy – or to make the other person realize that I am knowledgeable, important, persuasive etc. I may need to be right because I don’t have enough self-worth to accept that I might be wrong. Trying to be right often brings contention and conflict. I could simply chose to be happy instead of worrying about who is right. Often, the only way to win a fight is to walk away from it.

 I missed the simple truth that reality does not depend on my wants, desires, or opinion. It does not require on my approval. It just is.

I can accept reality as it is exactly at this moment and deal with it, or I can whine, gripe, complain, blame or whatever. None of these affect the outcome of the situation.   

Accepting does not mean agreement or approval——only that I recognize and accept the reality of what is in front of me at this specific moment. Problems can only be solved when dealing with reality; anything else results in worry, frustration, and disappointment.  

If you’re not calling 911, it’s not a big deal.

Prayer: My heavenly parent and indwelling spirit, please help accept the reality of my situation today; to be grateful for what I have instead of focusing on what I want. If my times are troublesome, carry me over the rocks; if times are good, help me to feel grateful but not take undue credit. Help me to remember that things could always be worse; that no matter where I am today, I have likely experienced worse days; that many other people have less than me. Help me to feel Your love and mercy in the deepest fiber of my being; to be aware of any opportunity that I may have to help one of your children today; to act according to Your will, to be loving.  

Spiritual Engineering

Many people suffer emotional turmoil and less than fulfilling relationships. They struggle, settle for second best, and survive this life but only dream of exquisite joy, romance, and a life free of stress and worry. This innovative process gives any willing person a choice between continued mediocrity and misery or the most fulfilling experience available.

Everything is about relationships, the breeding ground and incubation chamber for our feelings and outlook on life. Marriage the premier relationship — the one that we invest the most time, effort, money, and emotion to make successful — fails 50% of the time. But that’s not the worst of it! The failure rate is higher for second marriages and higher still for the third attempt. The existing relationship paradigm does not work. Relationships must be built, they do not just happen. Like building a house, we first construct a foundation, then the walls, and finally add the roof. The foundation consists of a personal spiritual relationship and the supporting structure is a healthy self-relationship. After we have the frame work for these, we put on the roof — our relationships with other people.
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Patricia & Tom Strawser

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